Monthly Archives: May 2018

Revelation of Character

The biggest test you will have is when you finally realize who your significant other really is, not how you perceive them… when their true inner character is revealed, instead of hidden any longer… when the facade on the front has completely fallen away forever and all that is left is the true self… the good, the bad, and the ugly exposed for all to see… and you choose to love them anyways… your love is what will make them beautiful… and they will be better in the end then when you started…  ❤️, Jamry

Misinterpreting Love Signals

Many people misinterpret love signals. They think someone loves them when in reality they are just being used. How do you know the difference? The difference is in the motive. You know someone’s love toward you is genuine when they do it because that is what they want to be doing. On any given day they could choose to do anything in the world or be anywhere they want… but what is fun for them is loving you, that is a good time to them. You don’t have to initiate them or force them to love you, they just do it on their own motivation. Genuine love just does because love is worth doing. Think about Santa Claus, he gives gifts because that is fun for him. He gets a kick out it. His idea of a good time is loving people. An abusive person lines everything up for their own advantage, they only give love when it is necessary or required behavior to accomplish their own goal… and their goal is not loving you, I can promise you that. ❤️, Jamry

You Tricky Devil

A devil of a man… he will be generous, charming, sweet, and kind… only just enough… enough to keep you wrapped around his little finger, enough to keep you on a leash… his generosity is disingenuous and he only gives enough to keep you from rebelling totally or from discovering who he really is… He will create a system and relationship with you to meet certain needs of yours, so that you keep coming back to him… time and time again he calls your name… He always wants to be there for you at just the right moment, so he can use the least energy and get the maximum withdrawal from you later when he needs something from you… He will push and pull on your emotions any direction he wills just to keep you in line with his needs… You know you are being played when he shows up for you only just enough, the bare minimum… to keep you from being upset, to keep you his slave, to keep you satisfying his every whim… He only does a little for you, but expects a lot from you and harasses you otherwise… He has you right where he wants you and he intends to keep it that way because he has it made now… He will never go out of his way for you… He will never go the extra mile… It’s always just enough…  If you are relating to that experience… Leave that situation immediately… Run… Bounce until he can learn how to love you, if he ever even will…❤️, Jamry