Monthly Archives: June 2018

Be One Directional

No, not the band… Focus on the one direction you are heading in and let everyone else go in theirs. You choose to love, do that consistently. When other people try to push you around, be one directional, be consistent. Do not waiver. Tough love is still love. I am saying… Other people will choose to be bitter, spiteful, vengeful, attacking, nitpicking, controlling, mean… You choose to be one person back to them, be the same person no matter what people do back to you… Love Forward… Keep marching… Don’t stop going… Don’t stop loving… Do not dip down into their way of being, do not alter the one direction you are going in… Don’t worry about how other people will react or receive your love, politeness, sacrifice, appreciation of them… They may even reject it… Sometimes love involves direct confrontation because you care so much about them… You are not doing this for the attention you will receive from it, do it just to do… Do it because that is who you are and you are consistent in that choice to be love… If you were a glass of water and someone pushes you over, what will come out? Bitter water or sweet water? That is the question when you get hurt in life, you must choose your own reactions… Be consistent and watch the results… It will be a battle when others try to contrast and contradict the love you are putting out to them… No worries… Love wins…  ❤️, Jamry

Healing Can Happen

It might take a minute… You might have to keep pushing through… It might take some very hard work… keep going… right when you least expect it. Healing will break through… and all of the sudden… You have a brand new love inside the old one… Behold, all things become new… Keep pushing towards your goal like you are giving birth… Soldier on… One day, the water will break out of nowhere… and the head will pop out… Nice motivating image for you, eh? You’ll be happy when your dream is born in front of your eyes. A new relationship can overwhelm the old one like waves finally catching up to you. Your heart will be flooded with joy unspeakable.  I promise.  ❤️, Jamry

Golden Child / Black Sheep

To everyone out there who has been pigeon holed as the black sheep of the family… be free. Don’t believe that lie anymore, its not who you are or ever were, you are fine just as you are… its an external label they stuck on your young psyche because they are the black ones inside and they need to project problems away from themselves onto someone defenseless. You are fine, live that way. To all the children weighed down with the crushing eternal weight of being the perfect golden child… you are free to discover yourself now… they superimposed their standards upon you on purpose, only to expect even more of you in the future. Hell is never happy no matter how many hoops you jump through and mountains you climb… They will make many demands and have little pay off for you when you reach the goal… You will serve them very well… People pleasing will be the end of you… Be yourself, follow your own dreams… Don’t be someone else’s mind slave and puppet anymore… I have come to free you from the lies… Come to me, I will defend you… Golden Child/Black Sheep, Yin/Yang, Good Kid/Bad Kid… Its the original trap… Head for the Exit… Find Life… ❤️, Jamry

Gentleman Calling

A gentleman will overlook most offenses, don’t mistake his kindness for weakness… just because all you can recognize is a bunch of macho caveman chest pounding with all your other adolescent friends. You are so insecure you overcompensate like that? A real man doesn’t destroy 300 women a day like Wilt Chamberlain, he masters one woman’s heart over a lifetime… unless you have no skills, I guess. Live for the glory, not for the shame. ❤️, Jamry