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The Cost of Love

Love, Romance, and Happiness are purchased in tears, not dollars… God makes us work our way back to Eden, since we deemed it so worthless the first time… Now we live in a toxic world, so we can learn the real value of Heaven, the hard way… It is worth it to pursue love, the alternative to climbing out of hell is continuing to live in hell… you are already there… Head for the exit if you want to be happy… God makes us suffer on purpose, so we can learn to appreciate Heaven… The good news is, once we wake up and express appreciation… He opens back up the door to Eden, free of charge… Now you get it, now it is all yours… Enjoy! Like Willy Wonka in the chocolate factory… Pass the test like Charlie Bucket and the keys to the whole kingdom of love is yours… For free! As long as he knows your heart is right, God will give you Eden back… Have you decided to change just yet? ❤️, Jamry

7th Anniversary Recap

Here is a recap of our 7th wedding anniversary! Play by play! Woke up, wrote my wife a public love post on this website, watched some soccer, bought the wife and kids boba in the morning, took them all to Torrance Beach, told my girls not to argue in the car with each other and that they need to stick together as sisters, carried all the heavy stuff down so she wouldn’t have to, flew a kite with the girls, took my oldest daughter into the big waves, she loved it, rubbed my wife’s back on the beach, enjoyed the day, packed it all back up, went home, gave all the kids a bath, the youngest one pooped in the tub, cleaned that up, rubbed my wife’s back after that, watched soccer replay… I have to say… it was a good day!  

Cognitive Behavioral Miracles

Do you want to hear possibly the most amazing discovery I have come across? Cognitive-Behavioral therapy could not advance because of a century old dogma that a genetically flawed brain cannot be changed. These patients were sentenced to life without recovery. Now try this on for size… Hard physical evidence of soul-brain interaction. A player and an organ. Physical Brain vs. Immaterial Mind. An OCD patient, the patient hates their compulsions and desires to not do them anymore. Chemical imbalance in the brain is forcing fear reactions and compulsive behavior. Gambling. What they have discovered is that thinking, remembering, desiring can function independently from the brain. You can have a “malfunctioning brain organ” and a functioning “mind” at the same time. The immaterial mind can interact with the brain to resist its compulsive signals, the chemistry of the brain can be reversed and changed by willpower alone. They can observe under a microscope a physical brain being rewired by sheer willpower from the inner man. MIND BLOWN. Materialist causation cannot explain the will triumphing over the brain organ. OCD today is treatable. 40 years ago, sorry, nothing we can do. Behavioral medicine requires the patient’s inner experience and will to triumph over the brain. Volition and perceived reality. There is an interaction of brain and mind that is empirically observable. They are not inside each other, the brain organ is being touched, pressed, and rewired from outside itself. Our hard-wired genetic instincts come with the gear, they tell us a default what to do or reaction. Our mind and will can over ride the default instinct and we can force ourselves to do something dangerous or safe compared to the instinct. Our instincts can also work improperly and not warn us when it should or warn us when it shouldn’t. MIND BLOWN. You can rewire your own brain using your soul as the modifying force to exert the physical change. ❤️, Jamry

Read it for yourself!

“The Mind & The Brain” BOOK. Brain-roles and Mind-roles. SCHWARTZ

Jung & The Clap

How does that sound for a new indie band? Gonnerhea has been proven to cause some forms of mental illness… In the same way that leaky gut can effect the gut-brain connection or the blood-brain barrier. The same as mercury poisoning may cause hallucinations. This does not bring a conclusion that all mental illness is chemical or biological in root nature. In fact, I would argue more along the lines of Jung… I think most mental illness is derived from character archetypes that we have chosen for ourselves or that have been environmentally placed upon us… I am not reductionistic, I think we must be holistic in our view of how a person has arrived at a current state… including family dynamics as a major player… However, I ultimately believe mimetic desire is the root of all claimed mental illness… The role models we have absorbed, the role models we become, the role models given to us by advertising and media… I believe these play a spiritual role in the formation of an individual psyche… and reprogramming that to be the real cure. ❤️, Jamry

Rene Girard To The Rescue

What Freud poked around at and what Edward Bernays played around with… Rene Girard hits a home run with. We have studied mass psychology and sociology for years, Rene Girard gets down to the brass tacks. If we understand that at the root of mass psychology is scapegoating and whipping up hysteria to project away from their own mistakes… We understand all of human history from Ancient Rome to Hitler to Noble Savages to Today. Rene Girard gives us the keys. Go read his works. ❤️, Jamry

Black Widows

M. Scott Peck teaches us about a certain type of woman. A black widow. She will pull you into her relationship web, usually a child or a lover. She will keep them there and drain the life out of them, she will gossip to the child about their own father… She will ask inappropriate questions to her own children about their dating life in order to vicariously live it out herself… This is real… I wish I made this up… We use to call them witches, now we call them black widows. You can read all about it in his book “The People of The Lie”. ❤️, Jamry

Talk Therapy

What Beck teaches us is profound and simple. The most powerful antidote may simply be… talking to each other. “Talk Therapy” “Chimney Sweeping” “Cleaning Out The Closets”… Its therapeutic, it brings Catharsis… It feels good… Its fun… Its intimate… Talk long, talk deep, talk about it all, hold nothing back… It is the best experience, you will feel fully alive…  ❤️, Jamry

Logical Exorcism

Gestalt Theory is the idea that instead of making a patient comfortable, you make them incredibly uncomfortable. Much in the same way that you would kick an 18 year old out of the house so he can grow up on his own two feet, you force the patient to deal with the inner self. If someone has an inner character flaw that they will not deal with, the last thing they need is to be pampered and mollycoddled. Which is what they will seek and want. They do not need a luxury asylum with three square meals a day, what they probably need is to struggle a bit until they are forced to deal with the inner self… You can not make a bad habit go away by feeding it, you starve a virus… Try making the patient fast instead. Try having them detox. Then the negative side of the self will come out to the foreground, be acknowledged, and will then fade away. ❤️, Jamry

Biological Inefficiency

The Biological Model is a dominant form of Psychiatric help and it has a long sordid history of failure. From Hippocrates’ concept of the bodily “Humors” to the modern claims of “Chemical Imbalance”… They use to treat these problems by pulling out teeth, blood letting, physical harm, darkened rooms, lobotomy of brain circuitry, inducing seizures… Today they still use barbaric treatments such as electroshock therapy… Do you know what the recovery rate is for patients in these types of treatments historically? Near 0%. That’s why Freud even came along to begin with, because treating people as a sack of chemicals to be balanced didn’t cure them, usually made them even worse, and often times even killed the patient. ❤️, Jamry