Did you know that here comes the bride was originally here comes the groom? The only reason they had the bride version is because people use to actually rob the bride in the middle of coming down the aisle since she had an expensive gown and jewelry on… so they brought her out quickly. It is actually suppose to be here comes the groom, the man is the hero of the story. Research Jewish Wedding customs which the Bible describes. “Behold, the bridegroom! Come out to meet him!” The wedding party begins when the bridegroom shows up to claim his bride, not the other way around. He is not standing around waiting in anticipation for her. She is actually waiting around daily in anticipation of her husband showing up to come get her. To rescue her, to sweep her off her feet, to take her away from the pain and welcome her into his world. A whoolllle neeeewww worrllllddd… Plus, for those of you who didn’t know… “Here Comes The Bride” was written by Wagner, who was Hitler’s inspiration for Nazi Germany. Just saying… Food for thought when you walk down the aisle… ❤️, Jamry
If the Kardashian family is the American golden standard for a family these days… Then this country is toast… The Dad was treated like Homer Simpson, so much so that he is now a woman… The Mom runs around like a Matriarchal overlord in everybody’s business, because if she is not happy… she will be damned to see anyone else be! Thats the right thing to do! Misery loves company, doesn’t it. All the girls are left doing is dating rappers/ballers that they control and manipulate to near death, all of this probably because they miss their real Dad… All I am left thinking is… What on earth would this family have been like if Robert Kardashian never died… It is obvious that in the wake of his death, the stepdad is unable of have any authority in the house, and the ship has run off course… Robert after the divorce tried to date and marry other women… Which supposedly Kris and the girls were instrumental in thwarting… Understandably, to some extent… They want their Dad… Who wouldn’t? I don’t know what all happened before the divorce to begin with. What I do know… is that this is no golden standard. This is hell on earth. It takes a strong man to put a family like that back in order. Home is just a breeding ground for Dad hatred at this point… If we can’t get back to honoring Dad… The whole house goes to trash… Men lead the family… Men are the hero… Men need to be loved in this way, women and children are the beneficiaries… Father needs put on a pedestal… Husband needs to be his primary role… DAD IS EVERYTHING, EVERYTHING IS DEFINED BY HIM, EVERYTHING IS REFERENCED BY WHAT HE THINKS, DAD IS THE OWNER… If you can’t do that, just keep watching the Kardashians… Good luck with that! Enjoy yourselves… My advice to men stuck in that family, like they say on Shark Tank… “I’m out”… The golden standard for a woman is not Psycho Witch Barbie, Kim Kardashian… The golden standard for a man is not transgender Homer Simpson… The golden standard is me, James Rydesky… The golden standard is my wife, Muriel Rydesky… We are the new Ken and Barbie, not Barbie and Ken… Call me The Godfather, come and learn something… You all look like a bunch of clowns in a bad circus… ❤️, Jamry
Love, Romance, and Happiness are purchased in tears, not dollars… God makes us work our way back to Eden, since we deemed it so worthless the first time… Now we live in a toxic world, so we can learn the real value of Heaven, the hard way… It is worth it to pursue love, the alternative to climbing out of hell is continuing to live in hell… you are already there… Head for the exit if you want to be happy… God makes us suffer on purpose, so we can learn to appreciate Heaven… The good news is, once we wake up and express appreciation… He opens back up the door to Eden, free of charge… Now you get it, now it is all yours… Enjoy! Like Willy Wonka in the chocolate factory… Pass the test like Charlie Bucket and the keys to the whole kingdom of love is yours… For free! As long as he knows your heart is right, God will give you Eden back… Have you decided to change just yet? ❤️, Jamry
Here is a recap of our 7th wedding anniversary! Play by play! Woke up, wrote my wife a public love post on this website, watched some soccer, bought the wife and kids boba in the morning, took them all to Torrance Beach, told my girls not to argue in the car with each other and that they need to stick together as sisters, carried all the heavy stuff down so she wouldn’t have to, flew a kite with the girls, took my oldest daughter into the big waves, she loved it, rubbed my wife’s back on the beach, enjoyed the day, packed it all back up, went home, gave all the kids a bath, the youngest one pooped in the tub, cleaned that up, rubbed my wife’s back after that, watched soccer replay… I have to say… it was a good day!
Do you want to hear possibly the most amazing discovery I have come across? Cognitive-Behavioral therapy could not advance because of a century old dogma that a genetically flawed brain cannot be changed. These patients were sentenced to life without recovery. Now try this on for size… Hard physical evidence of soul-brain interaction. A player and an organ. Physical Brain vs. Immaterial Mind. An OCD patient, the patient hates their compulsions and desires to not do them anymore. Chemical imbalance in the brain is forcing fear reactions and compulsive behavior. Gambling. What they have discovered is that thinking, remembering, desiring can function independently from the brain. You can have a “malfunctioning brain organ” and a functioning “mind” at the same time. The immaterial mind can interact with the brain to resist its compulsive signals, the chemistry of the brain can be reversed and changed by willpower alone. They can observe under a microscope a physical brain being rewired by sheer willpower from the inner man. MIND BLOWN. Materialist causation cannot explain the will triumphing over the brain organ. OCD today is treatable. 40 years ago, sorry, nothing we can do. Behavioral medicine requires the patient’s inner experience and will to triumph over the brain. Volition and perceived reality. There is an interaction of brain and mind that is empirically observable. They are not inside each other, the brain organ is being touched, pressed, and rewired from outside itself. Our hard-wired genetic instincts come with the gear, they tell us a default what to do or reaction. Our mind and will can over ride the default instinct and we can force ourselves to do something dangerous or safe compared to the instinct. Our instincts can also work improperly and not warn us when it should or warn us when it shouldn’t. MIND BLOWN. You can rewire your own brain using your soul as the modifying force to exert the physical change. ❤️, Jamry
Read it for yourself!
“The Mind & The Brain” BOOK. Brain-roles and Mind-roles. SCHWARTZ
How does that sound for a new indie band? Gonnerhea has been proven to cause some forms of mental illness… In the same way that leaky gut can effect the gut-brain connection or the blood-brain barrier. The same as mercury poisoning may cause hallucinations. This does not bring a conclusion that all mental illness is chemical or biological in root nature. In fact, I would argue more along the lines of Jung… I think most mental illness is derived from character archetypes that we have chosen for ourselves or that have been environmentally placed upon us… I am not reductionistic, I think we must be holistic in our view of how a person has arrived at a current state… including family dynamics as a major player… However, I ultimately believe mimetic desire is the root of all claimed mental illness… The role models we have absorbed, the role models we become, the role models given to us by advertising and media… I believe these play a spiritual role in the formation of an individual psyche… and reprogramming that to be the real cure. ❤️, Jamry
What Freud poked around at and what Edward Bernays played around with… Rene Girard hits a home run with. We have studied mass psychology and sociology for years, Rene Girard gets down to the brass tacks. If we understand that at the root of mass psychology is scapegoating and whipping up hysteria to project away from their own mistakes… We understand all of human history from Ancient Rome to Hitler to Noble Savages to Today. Rene Girard gives us the keys. Go read his works. ❤️, Jamry
M. Scott Peck teaches us about a certain type of woman. A black widow. She will pull you into her relationship web, usually a child or a lover. She will keep them there and drain the life out of them, she will gossip to the child about their own father… She will ask inappropriate questions to her own children about their dating life in order to vicariously live it out herself… This is real… I wish I made this up… We use to call them witches, now we call them black widows. You can read all about it in his book “The People of The Lie”. ❤️, Jamry
What Beck teaches us is profound and simple. The most powerful antidote may simply be… talking to each other. “Talk Therapy” “Chimney Sweeping” “Cleaning Out The Closets”… Its therapeutic, it brings Catharsis… It feels good… Its fun… Its intimate… Talk long, talk deep, talk about it all, hold nothing back… It is the best experience, you will feel fully alive… ❤️, Jamry
Gestalt Theory is the idea that instead of making a patient comfortable, you make them incredibly uncomfortable. Much in the same way that you would kick an 18 year old out of the house so he can grow up on his own two feet, you force the patient to deal with the inner self. If someone has an inner character flaw that they will not deal with, the last thing they need is to be pampered and mollycoddled. Which is what they will seek and want. They do not need a luxury asylum with three square meals a day, what they probably need is to struggle a bit until they are forced to deal with the inner self… You can not make a bad habit go away by feeding it, you starve a virus… Try making the patient fast instead. Try having them detox. Then the negative side of the self will come out to the foreground, be acknowledged, and will then fade away. ❤️, Jamry